怎么让女朋友和自己同居？女人第一次同居是因为什么？

事件介绍

恋爱是每个男女都要经历的事情，而婚姻也是大多数男女最终的归宿，不过比起直接进入婚姻状态，很多男女都会选择同居来试婚，对于男人来说，试婚没什么成本，不过对于女人来说，试婚则有风险，万一被辜负，那会丢失很多东西。

所以女人第一次同居都会很谨慎，那怎么和女朋友同居或者让女孩子留下来过夜呢？

那女人第一次同居的时候是因为什么呢？正面通过三个人物的叙述来告诉你！

1.默默 21岁 太寂寞了

我觉得同居还好吧，也不是和陌生人同居，我跟男友决定同居的理由很简单，就是我非常的黏着他，我自己的话太寂寞了，所以想要跟他一起生活。

刚开始我们是异地的，这种感觉太煎熬了，后来我主动到他的城市，然后决定跟他同居。同居之后我感觉各方面都好了很多，虽然也会面对一些压力，但是一想到和最爱的人在一起生活，我就开心的不得了！

2.张栾 25岁 当然是因为爱啊

我觉得女人肯跟男人同居的理由很简单，那就是爱啊，如果不是爱，哪个女生会主动跟男人同居啊。同居了就是一起生活，就是想要一起面对婚姻的状态，所以我觉得同居真的挺好的，可以彼此更能够看出来是不是合适。

我刚刚同居的时候，把同居想象的很美好，在一起久了才发现，爱情总会失去激情，而生活则总要继续。不过时间久了还能在一起，那说明你们是真的合适。3.孙星文 33岁 享受二人世界我没想那么多，我就想和男人享受二人世界，享受美好和甜蜜的生活。刚刚生活在一起的时候，我们真的是激情无限，感觉特别的享受，不过时间久了，激情总会褪去。慢慢的也会从所谓的爱情变成亲情，如果不合适，那就会分开，那种感觉很痛苦。

我第一次同居就是最终无疾而终，让我感伤了很久很久，所以男女如果说还没有想好，那就别轻易开始同居。

怎么让女朋友和自己同居？女人第一次同居是因为什么？（英译版）

Falling in love is something that every man and woman have to go through, and marriage is also the ultimate destination for most men and women. However, compared to entering marriage directly, many men and women will choose to live together to try marriage. For men, trial marriage is not costly, but for women, trial marriage is risky. If they are let down, many things will be lost.

So women are very cautious when they live together for the first time. How can they live together with their girlfriends or let their girls stay for the night?

What was the reason why a woman lived together for the first time? The front tells you through the narratives of three characters!

1. Silence is so lonely at 21

I think it's okay to live together. It's not like living with a stranger. The reason why my boyfriend and I decided to live together is very simple. I stick to him very much. My own words are too lonely, so I want to live with him.

At first, we were in a different place, and this feeling was too torturing. Later, I took the initiative to go to his city and decided to live with him. After cohabitation, I feel much better in all aspects. Although I will face some pressure, the thought of living with the person I love most makes me extremely happy!

2. Zhang Luan is 25 years old because of love

I think the reason why women are willing to live with men is very simple. It is love. If it wasn't for love, which girl would take the initiative to live with a man. Cohabitation means living together, and wanting to face the state of marriage together, so I think cohabitation is really good, so we can better see if it is suitable for each other.

When I first lived together, I imagined cohabitation as very beautiful. After being together for a long time, I realized that love always loses passion, and life always has to continue. But you can still be together after a long time, which means that you are really suitable. 3. Sun Xingwen was 33 years old and I didn't think too much about enjoying the world with him. I just wanted to enjoy the world with a man and enjoy a beautiful and sweet life. When we first lived together, we were really passionate and felt particularly enjoyable, but over time, the passion will fade away. Gradually, it will turn from so-called love to family affection. If it is not suitable, it will be separated. That feeling is very painful.

The first time I cohabited together ended without any trouble, which made me sad for a long time, so if men and women haven't thought about it yet, don't start cohabiting easily.

黑料不打烊 译