事件介绍
张津瑜女士太令人感到可惜了。
近日,网上又爆出了她的第二段视频,大概6分钟左右,让人看起来感到十分的痛心。
张津瑜1998年出生,学生时代擅长舞蹈、绘画等,具有满身的文艺细胞,身材也较好。
她喜欢媒体类的工作,大学考入扬州大学,毕业后成为了一名警务系统中的新闻工作者,相当于记者和主持人的身份,被誉为“最美警花”。
有时,她会去外地报道一些新闻,有时也会充当主持人,主持一些节目。
原本有着大好的前程,遗憾的是,被两段视频给摧毁了。
如今才25岁左右的她,正值大好年华,当时拍摄视频时应该才20岁出头而已,这么年轻的一个女孩,留下了人生的污点,不禁让人扼腕叹息。
前段时间,网上就在多次传出她的9分钟左右的视频,那次视频中的场景是落地大窗户。
从窗户内能看到外面灯红酒绿的场景。
在那次视频后,网络讨论了一段时间,热度逐渐消退,原本以为就此落下帷幕,但谁知张津瑜女士的第2段视频近日又在网络上传开了。
这次的视频,从原来的落地窗的场景转换到了酒店的厕所和房间,因此被人称为“厕所门”。
其实,我们都想着视频中的主人公不是她,也真的不想是她。
毕竟一个20多岁的女孩,被人家如此的去观赏着,确实让人心里难受。
但事实就是事实,有人仔细的对比了她食指上的戒指。
她在用餐时食指上所戴的戒指,和她在厕所门中所戴的戒指是一模一样的。
戒指暴露了她的身份。
厕所门当中的男主人公全程没有露脸,只让张津瑜一个人在视频里,真的让人无比的愤怒。
这位男主人公太过邪恶,将毫无设防的女孩陷入网络的滔天巨浪之中,而他却隐藏在镜头之外。
有神通广大的网友依然根据张女士和他的聊天记录,扒出了吕总的身份。
有人称,他是一位某企业的高管,今年40多岁,是真是假,目前还没有得到印证。
随着社会思想的开放,女生也不再像封建社会那样将三从四德看的那么重,当然也不能以此来限制女生对自己未来的追求。
但最基本的底线还是不能突破—洁身自爱。
这无论对于男生还是女生来说都是适用的。
只有自己爱自己,别人才会爱你,自己珍惜自己,别人才会珍惜你,自己看重自己,别人才会看重你。
张津瑜女士在视频中的表现让人感到十分的惋惜。一个年轻女孩,要身材有身材,要颜值有颜值,为何要受一个40多岁的男人的摆布,这令人感到十分的困惑。
有人猜测,这个姓吕的男人是一位高管,应该腰缠万贯,是钱让张女士丧失的理智和判断力。
我们不是张女士,也不能因此断定张女士为了钱而出卖了自己。但张女士的表现确实让很多人感到痛惜。
还有另一种可能,就是张女士对这位男士出于真爱,心甘情愿的配合这位男士,这也是有可能的。
但作为一个成年人来说,这个理由似乎站不住脚,也让人很难相信,毕竟一个20岁出头的女孩,很难真的喜欢上一个40多岁的男人。
做人一定要遵守基本的底线,这个底线不单是由法律组成,还有道德。
有人说,不犯法就行了,其实并非如此。
我们人之所以为人,还在于我们有良知,有基本的道德观念。
违背道德的事也不能做,特别对于女孩来说,有道德污点的事极容易伴随女孩的一生,使其无法走出来,进而可能会毁掉一个女孩的美好年华。
张爱玲在《倾城之恋》中写道:“花立时谢了,又是寒冷与黑暗。”
该盛开的年纪一定不要堕落自己,否则陷入深渊之中,可能就会无法自拔。
珍惜自己的青春,树立正确的价值观,利用有限的时间,做更多有意义有价值的事情。
奥斯特洛夫斯基在《钢铁是怎么炼成的》中说:“当我回首往事时,我不因虚度年华而悔恨,也不因碌碌无为而羞愧。”
当我们做到这点时,也就能问心无愧了。
从落地窗到“厕所门”,张津瑜太可惜了,手上戴的戒指露馅了(英译版)
Mrs Cheung Chin-yu is a pity.
Recently, her second video was released online, about 6 minutes, which makes people feel very sad.
Zhang Jinyu was born in 1998. He was good at dancing and painting when he was a student. He was full of literary cells and had a good figure.
She liked media work, admitted to Yangzhou University, after graduation became a police system journalist, equivalent to the identity of a reporter and host, known as "the most beautiful police flower."
Sometimes, she would go out of town to cover news, and sometimes she would act as a host and host programs.
He had a great future, but unfortunately, it was destroyed by two videos.
Now only about 25 years old, is in a good time, when the video should be only in her early 20s, such a young girl, left a stain on life, can not help but let people sigh.
Some time ago, the Internet repeatedly posted her 9-minute video, that video scene is a landing window.
From the window you can see the lights outside.
After that video, the Internet discussed for a period of time, the heat gradually subsided, originally thought this end, but who knows that Ms. Zhang Jinyu's second video recently spread on the Internet.
This video, from the original floor-to-ceiling window scene to the hotel's toilet and room, hence the name "toilet door."
In fact, we all thought that the protagonist in the video wasn't her, and really didn't want to be her.
After all, a girl in her 20s was indeed uncomfortable to be watched by others.
But the truth was the truth. Someone carefully compared the ring on her index finger.
The ring she wore on her index finger at dinner was the same as the one she wore in the toilet door.
The ring gave away her identity.
The male protagonist in the toilet door didn't show his face the whole time, leaving Zhang Jinyu alone in the video, which really made people extremely angry.
The hero is so evil that he plunges the defenseless girl into the surf of the internet while he hides from the camera.
There are powerful netizens still according to Ms. Zhang and his chat history, pick out the identity of General Manager Lv.
Some people say that he is a senior executive of a certain enterprise, this year more than 40 years old, is true or false, has not been confirmed at present.
With the opening of social thinking, girls are no longer like feudal society will see the three from four virtues so heavy, of course, also can not limit girls to their future pursuit.
But the bottom line is still not broken-clean and self-love.
This applies to both boys and girls.
Only love yourself, others will love you, cherish yourself, others will cherish you, value yourself, others will value you.
Ms. Chang Jinyu's performance in the video is very regrettable. A young girl, to have a figure, to have a face value, why should be at the mercy of a man in his 40s, this is very confusing.
Some people speculate that the man surnamed Lu is a senior executive, should be rich, is money let Ms. Zhang lose reason and judgment.
We are not Ms. Zhang, nor can we conclude that Ms. Zhang sold herself for money. But Ms. Zhang's performance did make many people deplore.
There is another possibility, that is, Ms. Zhang is willing to cooperate with this man out of true love. This is also possible.
But as an adult, that reason seems untenable and hard to believe, after all, a girl in her early 20s can hardly really like a man in her 40s.
A person must abide by the basic bottom line, which is not only composed of law, but also morality.
Some people say that it is enough not to break the law, but this is not the case.
The reason why we are human is that we have conscience and basic moral values.
Nor can it be done against morality, especially for girls, where moral stains are very easy to accompany the girl's life, making her unable to come out, which in turn may ruin a girl's good years.
Zhang Ailing wrote in Love of the Allure City:"The flowers immediately withered, and it was cold and dark."
The age of blooming must not degenerate themselves, otherwise fall into the abyss, may not be able to extricate themselves.
Cherish your youth, establish correct values, use limited time, do more meaningful and valuable things.
Ostrovsky in "How Steel Is Made"said:"When I look back on the past, I do not regret for wasted years, nor because of mediocre and ashamed."
And when we do that, we'll have a clear conscience.
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