最后一次谈张津瑜和吕总的9分52秒事件：是非分明，才是侠义之为

事件介绍

关于网友在我文章里的私信，我几乎都有答复，感觉意犹未尽，我今天再啰嗦几句，至此以后不会再讨论这是，以免对当事人造成更大的伤害。

在张津瑜和吕总的9分52秒事件中，我绝不赞同如“一个巴掌拍不响”、“苍蝇不丁无缝的蛋”、“双方都有责任”，这样各打五十大板的说法。

一言蔽之，谁把这种很私人的视频公之于众谁就错了，如果再用各打五十大板这样的说法，那就有点是非不分。

这话虽有点重，但事实就是这样，如果我们看不到这件事的真相，一味的各打五十大板，那就会造成更多的女性被拖累到其中，导致她们身败名裂甚至因名毁而身亡。

显然公布视频者的目的就是报复，他以这种桃色视频为武器，损毁一个人的一生，把一个年轻女人推向万劫不复，这是相当残忍的，我们的各打五十大板就是加剧了这种残忍。

有人可能会说，她做的事也不干净，难道就不应该指责吗？我觉得这是两码事，不能混为一谈，因为这存在两种猜测的结果：第一是不存在那种所谓的不干净，第二就是存在。即然存在猜测就是一种不确定性，即然是一种不确定性，我们的指责有可能会出现偏差。

但更重要的是如果这次事件你站在了各打五十大板的那一边，接下来会有更多的女性在这样的事件中受到伤害。因为在类似事件中，受到伤害最大的均为女性，女性的身份注定她们会受到这种不平衡的待遇，虽然她们是视频的参与者，但她们也是受害者，没有哪个女性愿意把自己的那一面公布于众。

在金庸小说里有一句话印象深刻，这句话大概意思是“是非分明，才是侠义之为”。其实侠不侠义，文不文明，不是真的要路见不平，拔刀相助，不是真的要一日三省吾身，只要自己有个是非分明的心就可以，哪怕你不发声，你也是一个侠义之人，比各打五十大板的人要侠义很多倍。

——– 黑料正能量

最后一次谈张津瑜和吕总的9分52秒事件：是非分明，才是侠义之为（英译版）

About net friend in my article private letter, I almost all have reply, feel still meaning is not finished, I will be wordy a few words today, so far will not discuss this is, so as not to cause greater harm to the parties.

In the 9 minutes and 52 seconds incident between CHEUNG Chin-yu and Chief Executive LUI, I do not agree with the arguments that "a slap cannot make a sound","a fly cannot make a seamless egg"and "both sides are responsible".

In short, whoever made such a very personal video public was wrong. If they used the phrase "50 boards"each, it would be a bit confusing.

Although this is a bit heavy, but the fact is like this, if we do not see the truth of this matter, blindly hit 50 big board each, that will cause more women to be dragged into it, resulting in their reputation and even because of the destruction of their reputation and death.

Obviously, the purpose of the person who released the video was revenge. He used this kind of peach video as a weapon to destroy a person's life and push a young woman to eternal death. This was quite cruel. Our 50 blows each exacerbated this cruelty.

Some people might say that what she did was dirty, so shouldn't she be blamed? I think this is two different things, can't be confused, because there are two kinds of conjectures: the first is that there is no so-called unclean, the second is that there is. Since existential speculation is a kind of uncertainty, since it is a kind of uncertainty, our accusations may be biased.

But more importantly, if you're on the side of the 50-board issue, more women will be hurt in this incident. Because in similar incidents, the most hurt are women, women's identity is destined to suffer this uneven treatment, although they are video participants, but they are also victims, no woman is willing to make their side public.

In Jin Yong's novel there is a sentence impressive, this sentence probably means "right from wrong, is chivalrous for". In fact, chivalrous, literary uncivilized, is not really to see injustice on the road, draw a knife to help, not really to think about my body three times, as long as you have a clear heart can, even if you do not speak, you are also a chivalrous person, more chivalrous than 50 people each fight 50 times.

——–Black material positive energy